You might ask yourself, what is the connection between my daily routine and my relationships? Are they mutually exclusive? What does this have to do with me and my intimate relationships?
Daily routine is often misunderstood. We all have one, or we wouldn’t need to make it a habit to stick to it. How does this affect our relationship? As you read on, you will find that the answer may surprise you.
You’ll find that your daily routine actually affects your relationship. You may be making the routine out to be something it’s not. By changing the routine you are changing the outcome.
The routine can change your emotional state. You’ll notice that the more you change your routine, the happier you become. But that happiness comes from something more than just a routine. It comes from a feeling of fulfillment.
Relationships have two outcomes. They either have a happy ending or a sad ending. No relationship can live happily if there is unhappiness in the relationship. So the question you need to ask yourself is what is your daily routine?
To answer this question, you have to understand the relationship between your routine and your emotions. A happy routine has emotional content. When your routine is happy, it’s because of the content in it. Your routine creates a feeling in you. That is how it makes you happy.
In a sad routine, there is no emotional content. That’s because your routine is sad. Sadness is the absence of content. If your routine is a sad one, it’s because the content in it is missing. You’ll find that your emotional state isn’t happy.
To change your routine into a happy one, you have to add content. The content can come from you. Or it can come from your partner.
What I mean by adding content to your routine is to give yourself a positive experience. Positive experiences give you a feeling of contentment, which in turn brings a happy ending.
Give yourself a positive experience by creating something for yourself. Put the ideas in writing and show your partner the same things you did. See if that brings a positive ending.
With positive content in your life, you’ll find that your routine becomes happy. It feels good, doesn’t it? It’s really that simple.